“Having What She Is Having”
I keep my cell phone on and near me at all times. I seriously think it has to do with being part of the beeper generation (yes, I know I aged myself there). Another part of it is that I have been blessed with the kind of friends that call me at random hours to do things. Luckily, this model of Blue comes with the endurance to figure out the how 20 seconds after I said yes (and 3 minutes after I walked out the door).
It was a surprise that Anthelian called me when he did. Not really because he called me randomly; he always does that. But that it had been so long. The amazing photographer was always travelling around taking stellar pictures of some of the most phenomenal people and locations. It had been almost a year since we had been in the same place to hang out. So I wasn’t as used to his call to action, which never disappoints. So, after finishing out work, I was off to a bar to meet a friend, and make a new one.
I run into Anthelian and we take a few to catch up before he introduces me to the lovely woman next to him: Lavella. She was very smart, flexible and willing to take a few chances. She was only in town for one more night and had a soft spot for rope. Anthelian brought me out there to see if I could oblige her. That part was the easy one. The hard one was where. I suggested bombing locations, but it was a bit cold. It was Anthelian who came up with the crazy idea to talk to some bar owners, and see who would let us shoot. I thought he was being a little too risky, but it was in very short order, he got us a place to shoot in the back of a active bar.
Lavella seemed to be nothing but happy to be in rope. And that’s something to say for New Yorkers: they don’t get fazed by much. Some random person seeing us set up asked their friend: “Is that girl getting tied up?” The friend said, “Yea”. And that was all the conversation I heard about it for the hour or so we tied and shot her. Lavella was fine once the tie was on, and Anthelian never lost a stride. So I just relaxed, rolled with the moment and got a great shot of my art.
I tipped the bartender quite a bit, and headed out with my friends. It was nice to shoot outside of my element. It’s a different kind of edgy. And a different kind of fun. Just like Anthelian and Lavella. And I cant wait for the next call like that… whenever it come in.
Later.









